I wish you hadn’t told me what you just did about my friend. I can’t un-hear that. You’ve hurt me as much as you’ve hurt them cos next time I see them that’s what I’ll be thinking about them.

To be honest though, it’s so tempting to gossip too. It’s weird but, talking about other peoples’ problems and irritating habits (out of concern of course) kinda makes me feel comforted. My own problems seem smaller for a while.

I gotta stop doing this. God, help me use words to build people up not tear them down. It’s my fragile, insecure heart again – fill it with your love. Let that love overflow in my words today

Ephesians 4v29-32 here: http://bit.ly/1brUG0S