Who told you love is about feelings or sex:?
How about this? ‘Love is patient.’

Check out the rest of 1 Corinthians 13v4-7 and substitute your name every time the word ‘love’ appears and say it out loud to really hear what you are saying –‘ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.’
How about you write them out and each day tackle one of them: Today I will be patient! #brettfish